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  Welcome To Swingers Life Network: 

My husband John and I and all the members of the Swingers Lifetime network would like to welcome you to our website. We hope you will find everything you need to learn and enjoy this lifestyle. This website is our contribution to the swinging lifestyle and the swingers’ community. In effect, John and I heard about his from a friend 13 years ago and decided to try it. We never looked back. We have enjoyed every bit of the moments and have met some of the most wonderful people on the face of this earth. But it has not been all roses all the time. We encountered a few difficulties not only dealing with each other but also dealing with other people and the mere concept of the lifestyle itself. This website is not only for experienced swingers who want to keep up with the happenings and issues in the lifestyle but most importantly for those couples are contemplating the idea of swinging.

Carolina Gibbs


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   Ask Carolina

Do we tell our kids about what we do? How do we go about it?
You probably don't need to go into the gory details or be explicit. But by simply stating you're adults and these are the decisions you make are things a lot of kids can respect...or at least my kids can respect that.

At parties or when swapping, I have problems getting hard.It's depressing
There is nothing to get depressed about this. By the tone of your question, I think I can see why you are having this problem: you are putting too much pressure on yourself to perform and ESPECIALLY not to disappoint. Take it easy. Go in there relaxed and not expecting to be a don juan. And think about the many ways you CAN please your partner(s) without an erection.. believe me there are many.

Swinging seems to involve a risk. What can I expect to get out of it?
Swinging allows you to explore your favorite fantasies safely. You and your partner can engage in private, intimate sexual activity, share someone in a threesome, enjoy with another couple, or engage in group swinging, all in the space of an evening. You can make new friends, and meet interesting people. It can also enhance your personal life and relationship, it can give you a positive feeling about your self and your partner

What is closed, open and soft swinging?
Soft swinging involves watching another couple during sexual encounters. Closed swinging: here partner swap, but have sexual intercourse in completely separate rooms. In Open swinging, partners to swap and have sexual intercourse in the same room.

My partner won't swing. How do I convince her?
You should not CONVINCE your partner. I you press hard, she may accept but it would be to please you and it won't last and the consequences can even be disastrous. Instead, examine why you want to swing: Is it for your own pleasure or to enhance your sexual life. If it’s the later, you should start by doing things that are different and naturally, you will reach together the decision to swing.



  Carolina recommends... finally.  

Since this site was up in 1998, I have always abstained from doing endorsement, especially for clubs, events etc since I cannot visit all the clubs nor can I attend all the events. But after so many requests, I have decided to give my two cents insofar as the sites. All the sites have their advantages and inconveniences. And obviously, if you can afford it, the more memberships to sites, the more chances you have. But if you were to have only two memberships, I would recommend:

  •  Swingers Date Club or SDC: If you are looking for quality, SDC is your bet. Their site is very nicely done. Their chat feature is excellent and therefore has an average of over 3500 users at anytime. Excellent customer service. Their membership is always purged. They even refuse money from members they feel are not real! 
  • Adult Friend Finder: I know it’s weird for me to recommend these guys since they are not dedicated to swingers. But I have a membership their and due to the huge membership base, we’ve meet great folks there, especially when were looking for females.


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BESTIALITY
(see ANIMAL TRAINING)

PARTY HOUSE (Western US)
A non-membership swing club offering a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties.

TRIAD
Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome.

MBiC
Married Bisexual Couple

ORGY
Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room; Complete abscence of inhibition in everyone taking part; group sex.

ARTS
Euphemism for fetishes; Cultures

NONSMOKER
Does not smoke. If used in personal ad means only those who do not smoke are sought for swinging purposes.

RESTRAINT
Mild bondage used in sexual fantasy enactments.

PRO
Professional; i.e. prostitutes or paid escorts.

SWINGING LIFESTYLE
Style of living with swinging a major component in recreation, choice of friends, business and social life, and intimate relationships.

NEWCOMERS
New people in swinging; First-timers.

RUBBER
Condom means of contraception; sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D.

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ddParties "Leather & Lace, Rubber & Steel" Party 26th April

ddParties run private swingers parties on the last Saturday of every month at our private house in the Spanish Mountains.

Our April party has a "Leather & Lace, Rubber & Steel" Theme.

Our parties are open to couples, single ladies and trios. Select single males by personal invitation only.

Full details at our party site www.ddparties.com

Date: Saturday, April 26, 2008      Place: Cordova, Spain              Contact! jo@ddparties.com or (=34) 600 639 669
Operation Salute - Come out and Celebrate our Freedoms
Armed Forces Day is always the third Saturday of May. We may be a week early, but don't worry, the theme will still be Operation Salute!! Come out dressed in your favorite camo and celebrate our military men and women who provide for our freedom!!! Imagine: Our sexy people dressed in military gear, even down to their undies..... This will be a night to remember!

This party is a BYOB party, so all attendees MUST be 21 and over. All liquor bottles must be kept in your room. We will have FREE setups and FREE sodas for everyone... And of course, the spread your hostess always puts out so no soldier will be famished!

Party Fees:
Couples $30
Single Ladies Always Free
Single Men - You need a date
Lifetime Memberships $ 15
Hotel Rooms are $54 per night, regardless of room type. There are four suites at the hotel that are $100 per night.

For complete information on how to attend this party, please visit our website.

A&K
info@cccparty.com
828-320-4065
Date: Saturday, May 10, 2008      Place: Kings Mountain, North Carolina              Contact! 828-320-4065
Swinger party in Charlotte,NC Saturday May 10 2008
Swinger party in charlotte May 10, 2008  at 8pm At the homewood suites on North Tryon street. All couples, bi females, and single females are welcome to attend. There will be a limited amount of single males admitted. Go to myspace and search the display name ncswinger for more info and directions. I hope to see u there.
Date: Saturday, May 10, 2008      Place: Charlotte, North Carolina              Contact! www.myspace.com/northcarolinaswingers704
Pocono Playpen's Military Night

Military Night

May 17th is Armed Forces Day, so we decided to use Lori's idea and run with it. Our theme for the night will be military night. We want to see our sexy sailors and soldiers for a night of fun and adventure.

The cost of the night will be $35.00 for couples, $10.00 for single ladies and $25.00 for single guys. Single men MUST be with a sponsor couple and space is limited for single guys.

Remember Golddust is a BYOB club so you bring the drinks and we'll supply the mixers and the sexy bartenders.

Visit Lisa's Toy Chest for the sexiest military outfits at the best prices in town. Enter "playpen" in the promotional code to receive $10.00 off your entire order til 5/17/08.

Mess Hall Menu

Pierogies

Hot Dogs

Saukraut

Baked Ziti

Chicken Fingers

Please remember we are guests at Golddust. When you are upstaris you must follow their rules and be respectful of the dancers.

Date: Saturday, May 17, 2008      Place: White Haven, Pennsylvania              Contact! lisa@lisastoychest.com or Poconoplaypen.com
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